Build or Buy? How to Decide When to Partner, Outsource, or DIY

Every veteran entrepreneur understands that the most important decisions are rarely about “what” to do, they’re about “how” to do it. Do you handle the mission with your own resources, call for external support, or partner with allies to get the job done?

This same logic applies in business. Do you DIY, hire in-house, or outsource? Do you invest in building new systems, or do you “buy” proven ones? The answer depends not just on cost, but on strategy, resilience, and leadership.

Throughout this guide, we’ll draw lessons from military leadership, examples of entrepreneurial resilience, and the Ryan Van Ornum military story to uncover how today’s leaders can decide when to build, buy, or outsource, and how these decisions set the stage for veteran business success.

The DNA of a Veteran Entrepreneur – Why Build vs. Buy Decisions Matter

For a veteran entrepreneur, business strategy feels familiar. The decision-making framework mirrors the battlefield:

• Assess the mission objective (your long-term business goal).

• Evaluate resources available (time, capital, skills).

• Anticipate threats and risks (competition, market shifts, burnout).

• Choose the deployment strategy (DIY, outsource, or partner).

This structured approach is why many veteran-founded businesses thrive. They don’t just chase opportunities; they measure decisions against resilience and sustainability.

Example: A founder building a digital agency may choose to outsource accounting and HR early on. Why? Because while those are vital, they don’t directly move the mission forward. This keeps the founder’s energy focused on growth and client relationships.

In the military, no one fights alone. Military leadership thrives on specialization and trust, knowing when to hand responsibility to the right people.

When applied to entrepreneurship, outsourcing is a powerful extension of that principle:

• Marketing: Agencies and freelancers can scale your visibility faster than trial-and-error DIY campaigns.

• Technology: Buying or outsourcing software development ensures systems run reliably without draining your time.

• Operations: Virtual assistants and external partners handle repetitive work, freeing leaders for high-value decisions.

Outsourcing isn’t weakness, it’s leadership. Just as commanders delegate roles to maximize mission success, entrepreneurs who outsource wisely demonstrate entrepreneurial resilience by preventing burnout and safeguarding focus.

DIY and the Entrepreneurial Trap – When Building Becomes a Liability

DIY feels appealing, especially for the veteran entrepreneur used to self-reliance. But there’s a hidden danger: doing it all yourself often leads to exhaustion, stalled growth, and missed opportunities.

The hidden costs of DIY include:

• Time wasted on non-core tasks like bookkeeping, IT, or ad management.

• Slower growth due to lack of specialized expertise.

• Increased stress and risk of burnout.

• Opportunity costs, losing focus on innovation and leadership.

The Ryan Van Ornum military story highlights this well: in the field, soldiers who tried to take on too much reduced their effectiveness. Business leaders who fall into the DIY trap do the same, risking both their mission and their health.

DIY has its place in the early stages, but long-term veteran business success comes from knowing when to shift gears, investing in outsourcing or partnerships that unlock new levels of performance.

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